Is This Thing On?
#1: I keep getting rejected
Rejection is really at the core of all reasons. But remember, rejectionn is often times a FAVOR! You are great
for SOME people, but TERRIBLE for many! Better to weed them out.
"I haven't failed, I've only found 1,000 ways that won't work" - Thomas Edison. Edison had two things that
made him successful: PERSEVERANCE and a positive ATTITUDE TOWARDS FAILURE.
#1: My hair isn't good enough
#2: Nobody is good enough for me
#3: I am a workaholic
#4: There aren't enough people where I live
I travel or relocate too often
My hearing is poor
People always have their headphones in
People don't go out anymore
Single people my age don't go to bars or clubs
#97: I'm too fat
#98: I'm too lazy
#99: I have no self-discipline or self-control
#100: I have kids
Reason we waited until #100 for this one is - you're right. This one is tough. Your options are limited.
You need to listen to ALL the other reasons and then EVEN MORE be accommodating, forgiving, patient. Etc.
I'm too stubborn
I don't dress well enough
Nobody likes me
I'm too nervous to approach
I can't be myself on dates
Get over this one - turn and burn. Get over the "can't approach" syndrome and then just throw yourself at people
to generate buzz, but then BE YOURSELF when you do! Let 100 people not go on dates with you just to find someone
you vibe with. It's much worse to try to go on 100 dates where they will ultimately not like you for yourself.
That lost time is worth a lot more than the couple failed dates. Remember - often times rejection is a FAVOR!
"I haven't failed, I've only found 1,000 ways that won't work" - Edison
I'm divorced
I'm married
I'm too old
I get spontaneous nosebleeds
I'm a pushover and let people walk all over me
I'm too nice, polite or respectful
I am a horrible procrastinator
I have bad eyesight
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Everybody thinks I'm a stalker
Everybody thinks I'm crazy
It never works out in the end
I seem invisible
I have medical problems
I have a sexually transmitted disease
I don't work out
I'm not good at sex
I don't like to talk in bed
I don't make enough money
I don't have a nice enough car
I don't have a nice enough home
I have psychological issues
I have family court issues
#42: I don't get any matches on dating apps
I am not as cool as other people
I have an eating disorder
I am addicted to social media
I like to punish my prospects
I am too demanding
I am worth more
There are no good places to meet people
